yes i do know it's exhausting to hear about the same old thing over and over..and many of us have this thought ' why should i help him/her when he/she don't wanna help him/herself?'..yes its true only we can help ourself..but have it occur to you that all of us just need a helping hand a listening ear?..isnt it thats why we are given two ears?..have you thought about that?..i guess not many have or bother to..cuz no-one wanna be around a sad/depressed/messed up person..
no im not saying people who are sad/depressed/messed up are right..what im trying to say is why is it many can't be more patient with them?..why is it they just want you to recover so-called in a blink of an eye?!..why is it they have to or must give you a time frame to recover to get back on your feet?!..why?..and when your time frame is up they just drop you just leave you just abandon you like you are some kind of garbage..
yes i know to get help the first thing you have to do is to open up..to say what exactly it is that is bringing you down..but do you really know how one feels when after he/she opens up, he/she is being dropped being left being abandon?..
have you thought about that?...